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Por que o sexo antes do casamento é ruim?
POR QUE O SEXO ANTES DO CASAMENTO É RUIM? MINHA AMIGA ACABOU DE COMEÇAR O ENSINO MÉDIO E ELA ESTÁ...
Sou virgem e estou namorando uma mulher com um mau passado, mas que hoje busca a pureza. Pensar sobre seu passado me atormenta. Como posso superar isso?
Sei como você se sente, porque eu era virgem no dia em que me casei, mas minha esposa não. Assim...
O passado de minha namorada me assusta!
Eu sou virgem e estou namorando uma mulher que tinha um passado ruim, mas agora é decidiu viver a pureza....
Don’t Open Your Presents Before Christmas
In 1994, there was no choice but to wait. I remember how the world was rocked when a new technology...
Aiuto! I miei medici continuano a farmi pressioni affinché scelga la contraccezione!
Detesto assolutamente andare dal medico. Non è a causa dell '"odore" dell'ambulatorio del medico, o dei controlli imbarazzanti o della possibilità...
Advice for Discerning Marriage
Dating can often seem like a maze. Those who are young and dating have never been married before and so...
Why I’m Waiting to Have Sex Until I’m Married
My inbox is flooded daily with questions from young women saying, My boyfriend says that if I really love him, I’ll...
How does a woman break free from pornography?
The thing about breaking free from lust is just that, you don’t just break free. It isn’t a wall to...
G, L, B, T, Q, S . . . What’s your identity?
While it is true that same-sex attractions are a part of my life story, today I share of myself to defend...
HELP! I Can’t Stop Looking at Porn
Pornography use has become an epidemic. The governors of Utah and Tennessee have recently declared pornography a, “public health crisis.”...
To the Girl without a Father
The most pandemic wound of our world is fatherlessness. Every little girl yearns to be pursued by her father. She...
5 Things to Know and Share About Sex Trafficking
1. WHAT IS SEX TRAFFICKING Sex trafficking is a subset of human trafficking and has been defined by the 2013 Trafficking in...
Are You Finally Ready to be Free? (Part 1)
If you or someone you love struggles with pornography, it’s my hope that the following two blogs will be of...
The Devil Wants You To Settle in Your Relationship
Besides choosing to give Christ my entire heart and life at 18 (after falling in love with Him in the...
Wedding Nights and Wedding Rings
Anyone who has walked the road can tell you...saving sex for marriage is a challenging journey. You can listen...
5 Lies in 50 Shades
Hopefully, you’ve already decided that Fifty Shades of Grey isn’t worth your time. But since, as Christians, we’re called to engage the...
Dating in the 21st Century
I’ve discerned religious life, gone on dating fasts and discerned what God is calling me to. I’m 30 and single....
Dear Future Spouse… An open letter from me to you
A good friend of mine recently gave me a book about future spouses. After each chapter there is a nice...
Leaving LGBTQ+… and Not Looking Back
Imagine if you could help someone move from despair to joy, and help them discover God’s will for them in a new,...
Namorando (e terminando) com virtude
Estilingues Lembra da história de Davi e Golias? Aquela que um pequeno pastor proclama uma vitória inesperada sobre um guerreiro...
Looking for Love in all the Right Places
Every day we’re bombarded with messages about what promises to satisfy us—pleasure, food, technology—you name it! We want it all,...
NFP: Not Freaking Practical
When we got married, I knew a few “absolutes.” Tommy was going to snore (I’d heard him do so during...
Are You Finally Ready to be Free? (Part 2)
In my last article we looked at two important approaches to heal from pornography: prayer and accountability. In this article...
Are you free to love?
One of my favorite lines in any movie I've ever watched comes from Disney's live action Beauty and the Beast....
New Year, New You: Be Realistic
I reflect on my past year during Christmas, and with Advent wrapping up now there’s no better time to do...
The Day We’ll Share a Home
"97% of couples live together before getting married." (- The Knot) I am part of the 3%. I do not...
How Far is Too Far?
I lead a weekly Bible study with a group of high school young men. Prom was approaching and the guys...
Open Your Eyes (Part 2)
We were in the library looking at a photograph book of the beautiful countryside in France. Then we turned to...
When God Provides
During my freshman year at Arizona State, I was riding my bright yellow bicycle to an economics exam when...
Open Your Eyes (Part 1)
I was fourteen, unpacking some brand-new shirts I had ordered, and trying them on my brand-new figure. My mom was...
An open letter to porn viewers
[The following is a high school teacher’s letter to his students on pornography] Dear Seniors, Our desire as human beings is...
Graduation & Pure Freedom
This past weekend I saw a lot of pictures on social media of graduates. It’s thrilling beginning a new chapter...
The Beauty of Woman
Here it goes. Get out your phone. Open Google. Now, fill your search history with searches of beautiful women. Wait,...
Let Go and Let God
You may have a picture in your head of your ideal future – a dream of the way you would...
Is pornography cheating?
Is pornography cheating? Yes. Oh, sorry…I guess I need to write more. Well, I guess I can explain it a...
How to Succeed at Your New Year’s Resolutions
Step 1: Stop aiming to change your actions. Instead of simply trying to change your actions, aim to change your...
Homosexuality . . . and chastity?
For many years, I rejected chastity while thinking I was truly free. However, that kept me from being able to...
Homosexuality: Am I destined to be alone?
Many people think that because I experience same-sex attractions, I have only two choices in life: Get into a relationship...
I Didn’t Wait And Wish I Did: An open response to Samantha Pugsley
Recently I read an article entitled "I Waited Until My Wedding Night To Lose My Virginity And Wish I Didn’t,"...
Why Today is the Day to Break Up with Your Boyfriend
I received many wonderful responses to my piece "When God Provides." I got texts from old friends, girls I knew...
