Posts by Sarah Larue

Freely and With Full Consent

  As a little girl, I loved the old swashbuckling tales of adventure and romance. Robin Hood, Zorro, The Black Arrow…Watching The Black Arrow I learned what an annulment was. When the evil lord tried to force the rich heroine to marry him by kidnapping her relatives that seemed like the worst fate in the world! My mom explained it Read more…

3 Things Every Guy Should Know About Porn

When a guy tells me he’s looking at porn, I don’t love him any less. In a way, I feel compassion toward him, because no guy who looks at porn loves himself, and I wish I could make up for that. I don’t think any less of him either, because I don’t know every circumstance so I can’t judge him. Read more…

3 cose che ogni ragazzo dovrebbe sapere sul porno

Quando un ragazzo mi dice che sta guardando del porno, non lo amo di meno.  In un certo senso, provo compassione per lui, perché nessun ragazzo che guarda il porno ama se stesso, e vorrei poter rimediare a tutto ciò .  E nemmeno  lo stimo di meno, perché non conosco tutte le circostanze per cui guarda il porno, quindi non Read more…

Open Your Eyes (Part 2)

We were in the library looking at a photograph book of the beautiful countryside in France. Then we turned to a picture with a somewhat immodestly clad female dancer. “These French!” my date said. “Who wants to see that?” He immediately turned the page. I just smiled. On the inside I was throwing confetti. Yes! I thought. He gets it! Read more…

Open Your Eyes (Part 1)

I was fourteen, unpacking some brand-new shirts I had ordered, and trying them on my brand-new figure. My mom was there with me and our dialogue went something like this: Me: “Oh wow! I never looked this good before!” My Mom: “Um… I think those shirts need to go back.” Me: “What?! No! Why?” My Mom: “You don’t want to Read more…

When his past isn’t so perfect

Suppose you meet an amazing man. He’s devout, mature, your best friend, you’re crazy about each other—but he wasn’t always like this. Like many deceived young people, he wasn’t always pure. As with any guy, make sure his chaste lifestyle is the real thing. If he isn’t faithful to you with his heart, his mind, his body, or his eyes, Read more…