How far is too far?

How far is too far?

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I’m thinking about hooking up with a guy for the sake of it. I’m just a spontaneous person. Is that bad?

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I’ve decided to save sex for marriage, but I’m unsure about being completely chaste with my boyfriend. Any advice?

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Can’t we accept that people have different values when it comes to sex? We need to be realistic–times have changed since the Bible was written.

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Is it bad to always be thinking sexual stuff about girls? If it is, what am I supposed to do?

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Is it okay to sleep in the same bed as long as you’re not going to have sex?

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If a song that I like has a few sexual lyrics about women, does that make it wrong to listen to?

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Exactly how far is too far to go with a girl? Be specific.

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Is foreplay with your boyfriend wrong, even if you really love him and just want to get as close as possible? I see myself marrying him some day.

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Is oral sex okay, so that you don’t go all the way?

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Is it wrong to make out with someone? Everyone I talk to gives me a different answer.

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