Would You Like Some Cleavage With Your Burger?

Every year in the United States, there’s this national holiday that rolls around called: Super Bowl Sunday. Half of the people at these household Super Bowl parties are there to see two NFL Football teams go at it for glory, in fierce competition. The other half of the partygoers are there to… well, see the commercials.

Last year, companies spent a whopping 8 Million dollars for a 60 second commercial during Super Bowl programming, while others spent 4 Million dollars for a 30 second one. These companies know that there are going to be tens of millions of people watching their flat screen TV’s all across America, so they are willing to invest big money during prime time, in order to market their products in creative and humorous ways.

A few years ago, I was at one of these parties and during a timeout, a certain commercial started being shown. There was a delicious looking bacon and cheese hamburger, with two meat patties, being magnified on the screen. I literally began to drool at the sight of this thing, wondering where I could get one. Then after a few seconds, the camera zoomed out and revealed someone holding the burger. Sure enough, it was a very attractive woman, who was wearing a bikini and eating that burger like she was intoxicated by it.

Here is what happened in the room at this point during the commercial: 1. Moms began to cover the eyes of their children, 2. The other women started saying, “This is so gross”, while their boyfriends or husbands half-heartedly shared their sentiments while they continued watching distractedly, 3. Some of the men had no shame and their eyes and imaginations were glued to the TV, like moths to bright light. For a moment I found myself a bit dazed and confused as to why this woman’s body was sharing the screen with the burger I had coveted so badly a few seconds ago. And then it dawned on me as I came to my senses: “Carl’s Jr. literally thinks I’m going to fall for this garbage?!”

It’s no mystery that sex sells. It sells a lot. And it traps unsuspecting men (and women) to buy into a huge lie. Namely, we’re taught as a society to reduce women into OBJECTS. Not people with minds, hearts, souls, hopes, dreams, and aspirations… Nope, just objects to lust after. And ultimately, what is Lust? It’s using another person for our own selfish gratification. And what’s the harm in that? The harm is in the fact that no person should ever be used or treated like an object, for their body parts. Rather, they should be afforded the God-given dignity and respect they deserve (even if they don’t ask for it themselves), because they have been created in God’s image and likeness.

You see, the advertisement executives at Carl’s Jr. were probably thinking this while they were coming up with this commercial:

“Hey there America! Where the fellas at? We know you love bacon! We know you love burgers and cheese! What’s more American than that? We know you like women and sex too, so here’s our lovely model whose name is… Actually, who cares about her name! Here’s her body instead! You like what you see, don’t you? You’re welcome. Enjoy. You guys are so dumb, and you make us filthy rich. See, as you’re watching our commercial, you are associating the sexual feelings you have towards our bikini model, with our double bacon cheeseburger. So every time you drive by our restaurants and franchises, you’re going to be reminded of your sexual stimulation, and at the same time, will want to buy our combo meal. So cheers to you, Stupid! All we do is flash you body parts, and you reward us with your business and appetite. Have some fries with that, a soft drink, and come back again!”

How far we have fallen, gentlemen. We shouldn’t be entertained by such petty advertisements. Instead we should be insulted… Twice. Once: because someone’s mother, daughter, or sister is being degraded as a sexual object, and gawked at by men around the world, for the sake of amusement and selling burgers. Twice: because people think we are so pathetic, we have no control whatsoever over our sexual appetites… Like untrained animals. Here’s a challenge for you to prove them otherwise: Don’t eat at Carl’s Jr. anymore—or any establishment that degrades women for the sake of profit.

“But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” ~Matthew 5:28

Men… Brothers… wake up.
IMG_0824_2Paul J. Kim is an International youth speaker, vocalist, and beatboxer. He presents and performs full time, sharing his love for Christ via music, comedy, and inspirational talks. He has released two music albums entitled “The World Sings” (2013) and “Run Fly Fall” (2009), and has been featured at NCYC, the Steubenville Summer Youth Conferences, and the Spirit in the City Festival in London, UK. His background includes a Masters in Marriage & Family Therapy (Hope International Univ.), a Philosophy Degree (Franciscan University of Steubenville), and over a decade of experience working in youth ministry. Paul resides in Southern California, with his wife, Maggie. Visit Paul’s website at


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