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How Far is Too Far?


  1. Is it wrong to flirt with guys?
  2. How do you stop being flirty, and suddenly start saying no?

Hooking Up

  1. What's wrong with just hooking up?
  2. Exactly how far is too far to go with a girl? Be specific.
  3. Doesn’t chastity ruin the spontaneity and excitement of romance?
  4. When I start doing stuff with a guy, and things are going too far, I'm always too afraid to say no. What should I do?
  5. I'm not dating anyone, but I'm thinking of hooking up with a guy for the sake of it. I'm just a spontaneous person. Is that bad?


  1. Is French kissing bad? Everyone I talk to gives me a different answer.
  2. What's the big deal just making out with a girl?
  3. How much kissing is okay to do with a guy?


  1. Is it wrong to wear a bikini?
  2. Why should I have to change the way I dress? If a guy has a bad imagination, that's his problem.
  3. How do you suddenly start dressing modestly? I'm kind of scared as to what people will think of me.


  1. Why is premarital sex bad? My friend is a freshman, and she says it's not a big deal, so she's going to try it. What do i say?
  2. What authority does the Church have to tell me not to have sex?
  3. Is oral sex okay, so that you don't go all the way?
  4. Is it OK to have sex while you’re engaged? After all, you’re going to get married anyway.
  5. Can a girl get pregnant the first time? What if you don't go all the way with her?
  6. I heard that the Bible doesn't say anything about premarital sex. Is that true?
  7. If premarital sex is so bad, why does it feel so good?
  8. Is foreplay with your boyfriend wrong, as long as you see yourself marrying him?
  9. My boyfriend and I sleep together, and my friend bugs me about it. How can I get her to see that he's not a bad guy?
  10. Can't we accept that people have different values when it comes to sex? Times have changed since the Bible was written.
  11. If sex is good and natural, why shouldn't we have it whenever we want?
  12. I'm 16, and I really want to have a baby. Why is that so bad?
  13. I've decided to save sex for marriage, but I'm unsure about being completely chaste with my boyfriend. Any advice?
  14. Don't you have to learn from your own mistakes to become who you are?
  15. If you know you're going to die, what's wrong with sleeping with the person you love?

Shacking Up

  1. My boyfriend wants me to move in with him, but I'm not sure. What should I say?
  2. Is it okay to sleep in the same bed as long as you're not going to have sex?
  3. Is it wrong to go on a trip with guys and girls and share a hotel room if the girls have a bed and the boys have a bed?

Thoughts of Lust

  1. Is it bad to always be thinking sexual stuff about girls? If it is, what am I supposed to do?
  2. Is it ok to fantasize about my boyfriend?
  3. If a song that I like has a few sexual lyrics, does that make it wrong to listen to?
  4. I know we shouldn't lust, but don't you think a girl's feelings would be hurt if you looked the other way?